Sunday, October 23, 2011

The Three Conversations

  1. The what happened conversation - right/wrong, impact/intent, and blame
  2. The feelings conversation -  reframe to the problem, don't evaluate just share, and express the full spectrum.
  3. The identity conversation - feelings of self: am I competent, am I a good person, am I worthy of love?

Our goal in conflict resolution is the Learning Conversation.

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